When Strong Isn’t Safe: A Story Every Prevention Pro Needs to Hear


What if the strongest person in the room was also the one hurting the most?

In this powerful new episode of the Prevention Leaders Podcast, we meet Bryan Flanery, a combat veteran, husband, and national leader. But this story isn’t about his success. It’s about the pain he hid behind it.

Why this episode matters:

This isn’t just Bryan’s story, it’s the story of so many we work to reach. You’ll hear:

  • How trauma can fuel performance… until it breaks someone down
  • Where prevention systems fall short, and how we can do better
  • The moment Bryan nearly ended his life, and what brought him back

What You’ll Take Away:

  • Why strength is often mistaken for wellness
  • How to spot the hidden signs of trauma
  • The power of presence over protocol in prevention work
This episode hit hard. It reminded me about mine, and that trauma doesn’t always look like tears; it can look like a promotion, a smile, or a packed schedule. Bryan’s story taught me (again) how urgent and personal our work really is.
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DJC Solutions, LLC

Meet Dave Closson, the owner of DJC Solutions, LLC, a consulting company dedicated to serving substance misuse prevention professionals, law enforcement officers, and military veterans across the United States. With a focus on sustainable habits, aligned experiences, and next-level excellence, Dave helps others achieve their full potential. As the author of “Motivational Interviewing for Campus Police” and one of the few Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) #StillServing Heroes nationwide, Dave is a nationally recognized expert in his field. He was the very first Director of the Mid-America Prevention Technology Transfer Center, where he served as a prevention catalyst, empowering individuals and fostering partnerships to promote safe, healthy, and drug-free communities. Dave's unique experience in substance misuse prevention comes from serving as a university police officer at Eastern Illinois University and being deployed as part of Operation Iraqi Freedom. During his year in Iraq with his infantry battalion and recon team, Dave earned the Combat Infantryman’s Badge and was awarded two Army Commendation Medals (one for valor and one for meritorious service). With a Master's in Technology, Training and Development, and a Bachelor's in Environmental Biology, Dave is a lifelong learner who is committed to pushing his own limits and helping others do the same. Through training, coaching, and consulting, Dave is making a difference in the lives of those he serves and helping them achieve lasting transformation.

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